What is it that some people have that makes it look like they are living a charmed life? They don’t have to sweat as many details as you do,
They may feel that they have worked for it and I'm sure they have. It’s by putting themselves in the right place, presenting themselves in just the right way that gets them the job or date they desire. They also put in the effort to get where they are. Most importantly, they have the deep core belief that they deserve and will get what they have. It is magical the way they have embraced these parts of their personal power to manifest a charmed life.
The new, and more important question to ask yourself is…
“How do I find the missing pieces to creating a charmed life?”
These candles tell you that you need to do some digging to find those missing pieces. You covered them up with lots of fears, beliefs and experiences that tell you that living a charmed life is out of your reach. That inner lie is having a field day with you, tricking you and misdirecting your focus to things that keep you in sync with the terrible belief that you “can’t even.”
Get the Poof! and It Sucks To Be You candles and rub them all over with the Tornado Alley oil. Light the candles and tell them that you need to clear out the old beliefs, fears and negative experiences that are blocking you from creating a charmed life.
Burn the candles for a few hours every day, stating the same thing over and over again and watch how the things that need to be cleared become apparent. You may start making new decisions, find out new truths and have some big emotional epiphanies. Write them all down and pay attention to the messages the universe is sending you. When the energies you are clearing get heavy, write down your latest discovery on a piece of paper, anoint the paper with the Tornado Alley oil in an outward spiral and then burn the paper and scatter the ashes.
This is a long term process. Don’t be in a hurry because that can cause too much chaos. It took your whole life to get here, it will take a minute to unravel all that you created.
Keep your journal from this process to look back in 3, 6 and 12 months from now to see the growth you have achieved from your magic.