Sometimes we do not know what we want in a love life, we just want something!  Or maybe you keep going for the same thing over and over again and that brand of love does not work so well for you.

With the holiday of love literally right around the corner – latch onto that energy and use it to bring more honey into your life.

One of the tricks for a good conjure that will change your life (for the better), you need to clear away the junk that is blocking the success of your work.   Make your clearing specific to the work you are doing and your success is almost guaranteed.   

Honey Mine – Love Jar Spell



Uncrossing Motor City Hoo Doo Candle

Unlined paper

Clear glass jar with lid; A 16 oz canning jar is the perfect size.

Tumbled or raw stones; Amethyst, Emerald & Clear Quartz

Dried rose head – OR dried rose petals, Jasmine Flowers, Vanilla Bean, orange peel, Lavender

Honey – the more natural the better

Come to Me Oil

Cleo Mae Hoo Doo Candle

First – Clear out the bad

Cut into the center of a lemon, but not in half. 

On a clean unlined sheet of paper, list out what hurt you in your past love relationships; the undesirable traits of others, the bad habits you have and anything else that you want to never see again in a love interest.  

Turn the paper counterclockwise one turn (90 degrees) and write across it Cut & Clear out of my life 9 times.   

Cut the cords of what you no longer want in a love interest from you by snipping the scissors around your aura as you restate the things on your list.

Cut the paper up into small bits and put into the lemon.  As you are cutting up the paper tell it that you are cutting those things out of your life and people with those traits are sour to you and you to them.   

Light an uncrossing candle and place it in front of the lemon, blocking the old energies from you.   

Wash your hands of the past situations with soap (if you can use real handmade soap all the better)

At your first opportunity, throw the lemon in a dumpster far away from your home or work.   Throw it and do not look back.   Continue to burn the candle daily until it is done (never leave a burning candle unattended)

Second - Decide what you want and sweeten them to you.

List out the important ideas in your partner – including what is attractive to you visually.  Fill the page up and make sure you put human on your list.   When it is filled, turn the page clockwise and write across it 5 times – Come to me.    Write your name all around the edges of the paper without lifting your pen.

Fold the paper 3 times towards you and place in the jar.

Light Your Cleo Mae candle – telling it what you want in a love interest.   Tell her you want it now!!!

Start placing your ingredients in the jar and tell each one what you want it to do:

Roses – If you can put a fresh rose head in the jar all the better.  Roses are for love, soul deep love.

Jasmine – To be warm and sweet and bring sweet to you.

Vanilla – To be alluring, helping the one you seek to see the beauty in you.

Orange Peel – For beauty, joy and a healthy sexual pull.

Lavender – for fidelity, happiness peace and love

Emerald - for passionate love

Amethyst – for love, trust and joy

Clear Quartz – to increase the energy of your jar

Put in 5 drops of Come to me oil

Water - fill the jar ½ way with water

Start to slowly drizzle the honey into the jar – talking to your future love interest.  Tell them what you are looking for and tell them what you have to offer.  Taste the honey as you are drizzling it in and say, Be sweet on me, be mine

Do not fill up the jar all the way – you want room to grow together. 

Put the lid on the jar and shake it up!  Call your new love interest to you!  Wake them up to your call and tell them that you are ready for them.

Place the Cleo Mae candle on the top of the jar and put the jar on a plate.  Let the candle drip onto the jar.   Shake that jar every day and call your love to you.

One you have them – keep them!

Keep that jar for a year once you have the new love you are looking for.   After a year or if you are no longer interested in who you called to you, empty out the contents of the jar into the earth.   Now it is on the two of you to build a solid relationship.

If your Honey Mine Jar has not called anyone to you – do a series of cleansings for a week – then shake the jar again.