Candle Ritual for Dropping the Mean Girl Act

Full Moon in Aries on October 9, 2022

We are solidly in a two-week cycle for dropping bad attitudes and character flaws that get in the way of letting our soul light shine. Take full advantage of the powerfully cleansing vibration of this full moon and dive into the personal work it takes to morph, emerge, and evolve into who you are meant to be.

There is no time like the present!

To help you with this we’ve created a candle ritual that guides you through healing introspection. Then it will help you release the toxic residue of your past experiences and choices that have cemented you in your pain and prevented you from growing.  Much like the way Storm Cetavani taught us that when Medusa was set free of her pain, Pegasus was born.

Candle Ritual for Dropping the Mean Girl Act

For this ritual, you will need a Blessed Herbal Truth and Justice candle, a mirror, Blessed Herbal Heart candle, a bowl of water, and a Blessed Herbal Spiritual Cleansing candle.

Begin this candle ritual by setting up your tools and your space. Give yourself at least forty minutes of uninterrupted time. Remove the packaging from all the candles and place them in candle holders. Get your handheld mirror and bowl of water and place them on the table with your candles.

Now set up your sacred space. Do this in your usual way. If you don’t have one, you will need to do two things, 1. Cleanse the energy of your space. You can do this by burning some sage or incense or spraying a room cleanser like our Wicked Good Sage and Rosemary spray. 2. Ask in reverence that your aura be surrounded by a golden bubble of light and invite your Guardians in spirit to protect you. 

Begin the candle ritual by placing the bowl of water in front of you and the Truth and Justice candle on the other side of the bowl, the Heart candle to the left of the bowl, and the Spiritual Cleansing candle to the right of the bowl. Have the hand mirror handy. Light the Truth and Justice candle only. You can read the blessing on the label or you can say your own words by asking for help in seeing yourself honestly. Your intention is to know yourself better. Don’t shy away from the things you’ve done that you are not proud of. Even if you feel justified in doing them. You need to see it all so you can let it go. Look at your reflection in the mirror as you reflect on your life, your choices, and how you handled your experiences. Notice how at times you look beautiful and at times you look troubled or even ugly to yourself as you reflect on who you think you are. Don’t judge yourself, but let thoughts and emotions come out and then pass.  

Then light the Heart and the Spiritual Cleansing candles. Recite the blessings or say your own words. Your intention is to love yourself through it all as you reflect, forgive yourself, and release the toxic energy you’ve been holding onto for whatever reason. As you let go, affirm that the toxic energy is pouring into the bowl of water and held there. The more you release the more you will begin to let the light of your soul, your true self shine through. Affirm that you are not your experiences. Affirm that your true self is a spark of God, which is pure love. As you clear and release the pain, you are better able to see the real you. Continue with this ritual as long as you are able or until you feel complete. You can always repeat this ritual again and again. 

Before you blow out the candles, ask to be filled with love. You are filling up the spaces where you have released the pain. You are done when you feel happy and calm.

Now you can thank your Guardians in spirit and any other holy ones who have helped you. Blow out the candles and pour the bowl of water down the toilet and flush it.

Get a good night's sleep and when you wake up tomorrow start your day with a smile on your face and be grateful for all that you have. Do one good thing before the day ends and reflect on the day before you go to sleep. Forgive your mistakes and promise to do better tomorrow. 

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Lighten up your life with help from products from Coventry Creations www.coventrycreations.com and advice from Storm Cestavani, Astrological Life Coach, www.stormcestavani.com. Discover your potential in your Akashic records with Patty Shaw, www.facebook.com/healingwithpattyshaw/.