Setting intent is the beating heart of magic—it’s the spark that ignites the flame and sets your desires in motion. Without intent, you’re just going through the motions, like a GPS without a destination. But when you set your intent with clarity and purpose, you align your energy with the universe in a way that’s almost impossible to ignore. Intent isn’t just a wish; it’s a declaration. It’s planting your flag in the soil of possibility and claiming your space in the world. So, let’s talk about how to set your intent in a way that’s not just effective but downright transformative.   Start with the “Why” Intent begins with asking yourself, why? Why do you want what you want? Why is this goal important to you? Too often, we skip this step and jump straight into the “how” of making things happen. But understanding your “why” gives your intent...

Let’s talk about something vital to your magical practice: candle safety. It may not be the most glamorous part of working with candles, but trust me, it’s just as magical as any spell you’ll cast. The flame you light isn’t just fire—it’s alive. It’s a living, moving force that transforms energy. And with great magic comes great responsibility. Every time you light a candle, you’re entering into a relationship with that flame. It’s powerful, it’s dynamic, and yes, it’s unpredictable. Over the years, I’ve seen flames do things that defy logic—jumping impossibly far to catch a flammable surface. So, let’s talk about how to keep your magic safe, your eyebrows intact, and your spellwork drama-free.   First Things First: Use a Fire-Safe Candle Holder Rule number one: always use a fire-safe candle holder. I don’t care how sturdy your altar or table looks—a proper holder is non-negotiable. It keeps your candle...

When was the last time you let yourself dream? I mean really dream—fearlessly, with your heart wide open. Because, let me tell you, dreams are where the magic starts. If you’re ready to roll up your sleeves and light a fire under those dreams, then you’re in the right place. Candle magic isn’t just about setting an intention; it’s about creating a spark—literally and spiritually. This isn’t a passive process where you whisper to the universe and wait. Nope. This is a co-creative dance with the cosmos, and every step matters. Let me guide you through it, one flame at a time. Step One: Name That Desire Manifestation starts with clarity. If your dreams are murky or undecided, the universe will have no idea what to do with them. Sit down with a notebook and your favorite pen, and write out what you want. Not what your mom wants, not what...

  There is a mood that comes from candles lit in a dim room.  You are immediately relieved of your earthy (daily) concerns, your brain slows down and you can breathe a little slower.   Candle magic taps into the mood set with this hue of light and starts to unwind your spirit to align with your intent. Every part of candle magic contributes to the weave of magic you are creating.  The flame, the scent, the blessing, the space you are in and the color all contribute to the magic.   Don’t discount the importance of color in your candle magic.  Each color carries its own unique energy that assists in the transformation you are intending.  In the Big Book of Candle magic (page 80) I dive into the color feedback loop where your emotional reaction to a color affects its vibrations and the vibration of the color affects our energy....

Feeling like your spell didn’t work is disheartening.  It makes you wonder if magic and energy is real or you are just fooling yourself.  Maybe you wonder if the divine is mad at you and you are in punishment.  You did the work.  You lovingly prepared your candles, precisely chose the herbs, and carefully wrote the petition—and still you didn't get the outcome you wanted.  “Why isn’t this working?” But here's the thing: magic is as much about self-discovery and inner growth as it is about external results. Let’s explore why your spell might not be hitting the mark and how to realign for success. Is It Working? The Subtle Signs of Success Magic isn’t always loud and dramatic. Often, its effects show up as subtle shifts, like the faintest breeze moving through your life. Look for those tiny signs that things are beginning to shift: maybe a difficult conversation went...

Candle magic. It might seem like the simplest form of spellwork—a flame, some wax, and your intentions. But don’t let that simplicity fool you. Beneath that flickering light lies profound power and centuries of tradition. This isn’t just a candle—it’s a portal to transformation, a dance of elements, and your direct line to the Universe. Let’s dive in and explore why candle magic works, why it’s so powerful, and how it transforms your intentions into reality. Pull up a chair. Aunt Jacki is about to get real, magical, and maybe just a little bit sassy.   The Spark of Intention: Where Magic Begins Here’s the deal: magic starts with intention. If you’re just lighting a candle without knowing what you want, it’s like putting an envelope in the mail without an address. Candle magic gives your intention a home, a destination, and a clear path to get there. When you light...

The bóveda (literally “vault” in Spanish) is a sacred space for honoring your ancestors and spirit guides—a kind of spiritual hotline to the Other Side. Think of it as a metaphysical charging station where your spirits get their clarity, power, and pep while you get their guidance, protection, and possibly a few side-eyes if you forget to refresh the water. In essence, the bóveda is a bridge between the land of the living and the dead, a portal where you can pray, meditate, divine, and occasionally just spill your existential tea to someone who won’t interrupt. While the basics of setting up a bóveda are fairly consistent, every practitioner adds their own flair. Some follow strict traditional setups; others let their spirits guide them to something more unique. Spoiler alert: you’ll eventually fall into the second group once you get the hang of it. But first, let’s walk through the essentials....

The month of December brings us Capricorn season, which begins on Winter Solstice (December 21) and continues until the Sun moves into Aquarius on January 19th.

Capricorn is an earth sign that is concerned with taking charge, being ambitious, striving for success, and focusing on things that matter. In other words, it’s not the time to be passive and let the world pass you by; it’s time to seize your moment and make things happen.  Since Capricorn is a cardinal sign, the past no longer matters. It is what you can do today that should be your focus.