Life has a way of throwing us into the deep end when we least expect it. One day, you’re gliding through life with a smug little “I’ve got this” attitude, and the next, you’re staring at your ceiling at 3 AM wondering if Mercury is in retrograde—or if you just made a series of spectacularly bad decisions.
Here’s the thing: magic isn’t about waiting for the universe to bail you out. It’s about stepping up, lighting a damn candle, and making some energy work in your favor. That’s where Coventry candles come in—crafted with intention and a little extra push from the unseen forces that keep the world spinning. Pair them with the right crystals, and suddenly, you’re not just hoping for a better outcome; you’re actively calling it in.
So, whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just in need of a little “please let things go right today” moment, these five rituals have your back.
There comes a time in life when you realize something has to go—an outdated belief, a toxic relationship, a job that makes you feel like you’re dying a slow death inside. But here’s the problem: change is terrifying. Even when we know we need to move on, we still clutch onto the old stuff like a security blanket made of emotional baggage.
That’s where this ritual comes in. It’s your cosmic “Ctrl+Alt+Delete,” helping you clear out the old junk and step into something better—without the emotional whiplash.
Candle: Needed Change
Crystals: Malachite (for transformation) + Obsidian (for clearing out the old gunk)
When the candle burns down, dispose of your written statement however feels right—tear it up, bury it, safely burn it (without burning down anything), or flush it away. Symbolic closure is magic in itself.
If your brain feels like a browser with 87 tabs open, and every one of them is buffering, this ritual is for you. Anxiety, overthinking, emotional chaos—it all adds up, making it impossible to function. The good news? A little candle magic and some well-placed crystals can turn your nervous system from “constant fire drill” to “peaceful monk on a mountaintop.”
Candle: Emotional Balance
Crystals: Amethyst (for chill vibes) + Fluorite (to stop the overthinking spiral) + Shungite (to keep you grounded)
By the time the candle burns out, you might not have achieved enlightenment, but you will have reclaimed your peace—and that’s priceless.
Healing isn’t a straight path. Some days, you’re fine. Other days, you hear a certain song or see an old photo, and suddenly, you’re back in the emotional trenches. That’s normal. What isn’t normal? Pretending it doesn’t hurt and pushing through like a robot. This ritual gives you the space to process, release, and—most importantly—be gentle with yourself.
Candle: Healing (Affirmation)
Crystals: Rose Quartz (for self-love) + Amethyst (for emotional release) + Shungite (for stability)
By the time the candle has burned its last flicker, you’ll be a little lighter, a little stronger, and a lot more in tune with yourself.
Manifesting success isn’t just about grinding harder—it’s about aligning yourself with the energy of abundance so that opportunities show up and doors open without you having to break yourself in the process. Hard work is great, but magic? Magic makes sure that effort actually pays off.
This ritual isn’t about wishful thinking; it’s about clearing mental clutter, sharpening your focus, and making sure you recognize golden opportunities before they pass you by.
Candle: Success (Affirmation)
Crystals: Malachite (attracts wealth and encourages bold action) + Hematite (keeps you focused and disciplined) + Fluorite (clears distractions and sharpens intuition)
Let’s Do This:
Magic and opportunity go hand in hand—you just have to be open enough to see them when they show up.
We all know that person. The one who drains the life out of a room the second they step in. The one whose texts make your stomach sink. The one who throws backhanded compliments like they’re Olympic-level shade.
Negative energy is real, whether it’s coming from your surroundings, other people, or even your own creeping self-doubt. This ritual doesn’t just block that mess—it repels it before it even gets close. Think of it as a full-force energetic security system: the alarm, the reinforced locks, and the big, scary “KEEP OUT” sign all in one.
Candle: Fiery Wall of Protection (Aunt Jacki’s Hoo Doo)
Crystals: Hematite (fortifies your aura and strengthens boundaries) + Obsidian (psychic shield that absorbs negativity before it reaches you)
If you’ve been feeling drained, agitated, or just off—this is the reset you need. Because protecting your energy isn’t selfish; it’s survival.
Candle and crystal magic isn’t about waving a wand and waiting for things to change. It’s about showing up—day after day—and making that change happen.
So light the candle. Hold the stone. Set the intention. Then get up and take the next step.
Because, my friend, the magic has already begun.
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Jacki Smith this the founder, enchantress and visionary of Coventry Creations. She started Coventy in 1992 and with her sister and business partner, Patty Shaw, they have taken if from the kitchen stove to an international company. Author, teacher, presenter, radio host, reader and healer, Jacki has dedicated her entire life to the mission of normalizing the words “Witch” and “Magic.”