This series of blogs called “getting comfortable in your skin” has been inspired by Coventry Magic by Jacki Smith. 
Just to recap: For 2015, we are dedicating ourselves to unleashing your personal power. Since this is no overnight task, we have broken it down month by month. January, we talk about getting comfortable in your own skin. Before you can become your most empowered self; our thought process is first you have to figure out who the hell are you before anything? Last Wednesday, I wrote about looking down deep to discover what is really important to you. If you would like to read it, it is called: Getting into your body here and now.
Forgiving Yourself
I call them memory ninja attacks. You are just about the drift off to sleep and then BAM a super embarrassing memory pops into your head leaving you wide awake and blushing. We over focus and question everything we do. Re analyze our actions, things we may have said, mistakes that we made. The thing is, it is really just us that remembers them. We all live in our own clouds replaying our own events to really focus on others. With this in mind, the only person really holding onto the existence of this event is you, so let memory go and give yourself a high five for being mature enough to know the only judging you is you.
The problem with not letting things go, to not allow forgiveness, is the scars that form around our personalities to avoid any more hurt. We become less willing to take chances, less confident in our choices. How can you discover your true self when it is covered in the fog of memories you cannot let go?
The more honest we can be about what really motivates us, the more we can focus on the little things that will either help us to come to terms with our fears or help us feel more fulfilled in life. It is also much easier to give ourselves a break for not always being successful.
To start your own journey, pick up a copy of Coventry Magic we can do it together! I would love to hear any updates on your progress and findings
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Write out what you are going to do to create a 5 minute miracle for the next 6 days. Repeat this every 7th day.
Spiritually cleanse this morning before you face the day. Smudge, use a salt scrub, oils, bathe with tea-bags, anything that you normally do to cleanse, but do it in a very focused way. How much different was your day?
When you get home from work today, instead of lying down or sitting down, shake yourself up. Shake all the excess energy or unwelcome energy off of your body. Shake your head, arms, trunk, butt, legs and feet. Now yell a little while you shake. What mood were you in before you shook and after you shook?
Put your hand on your heart and on your solar plexus and visualize the energy cycling between those two Chakras. How does that feel to you? Are you feeling any discordant energy? If you do, let the energy flow until it feels smoother.
Touch your toes and hang that way for a full 60 seconds. Even if you have to bend your knees, touch your toes. Lift you arms high, look up and slightly arch your back. Hold that for 60 seconds. Bring your arms out to the side for 60 seconds, making yourself a giant “t”. Now hug yourself for as long as you can. What thoughts came to you in each position. 1 – What you need to relax from, 2 – What do you need guidance on, 3 – what in your life are you open to, 4 – What in your life are you embracing.
Get up and take a brisk walk in the world for five minutes or jog in place for 3 minutes. How different do you feel in your energy center? Do you have a better outlook on your day?
